Are you sweating thinking about the idea of pumping milk at work?
For many women, the thought of taking their breast pump to work and finding a place where they can use it is intimidating, to say the least.
While it may make you uncomfortable, pumping at work is your right; it helps provide the best nourishment for your baby.
If you’re feeling nervous about your return to the office, here’s everything you need to know about surviving breast pumping at work.
Back to Work Pumping Checklist
Know Your Rights
Breastfeeding at work can be uncomfortable, but if anyone gives you a hard time about it, remember it’s your right.
I felt so uncomfortable when I had to discuss breastfeeding options with my boss, but I had another co-worker who was fearless about it. She insisted they provide the time for her to breastfeed and that she be allowed to use a room that wasn’t the bathroom where they initially wanted to put her.
I wish I had fought that hard for my rights, but I was way more timid than she was. If you don’t have someone in your office like that, you may have to assume that role whether you’re comfortable with it or not. Some bosses and companies just don’t value the role of breastfeeding yet. Hopefully, that will change someday, but until then, we need to keep fighting.
Here’s what you need to know about your rights as a breastfeeding mother in the United States under the federal law, “Break Time for Nursing Mothers.”
- Who is covered: Sadly, not everyone. It covers hourly employees who are already under the Fair Labor Standards Act (1). Read the section below for more information on this.
- How it helps breastfeeding moms: Since health professionals have backed breast milk as being nutritionally superior to formula, this law was created to help working moms continue breastfeeding. It forces employers to give their employees a break so they can breastfeed or pump during work hours. It also requires that they give them a place to have some privacy while pumping.
- Are there any rules or conditions: The private room you’re allowed to pump in can’t be a bathroom. No one should be able to see into the room while you’re breastfeeding or pumping (so if you have any known office perverts, you can breathe a sigh of relief).
- Who enforces this law: This depends on where the person is receiving protection. For those protected under the FLSA, the watchdog of this law is the U.S. Department of Labor’s Wage and Hour Division. They have a general toll-free number you can call if you’re experiencing any problems. The number is 800-487-9243. However, state courts and agencies would enforce the law with those protected under state law.
- How long can I pump for: The time portion of the law is open to interpretation — it requires that you be given a reasonable amount of time to pump. This time isn’t necessarily paid though, unless your boss already has paid breaks for everyone. You shouldn’t milk this time for all it’s worth though — you should pump and get back to work. During lunch, you’ll want to eat while pumping to save time.
Pumping at Work Timeline Checklist
Here’s what you’ll want to do before your first day back at work arrives.
One Month Before Returning to Work:
- Start stockpiling breast milk in the freezer. You should have at least enough milk for one day of feedings, which may be about 25 to 30 ounces. You can easily have enough stored if you begin pumping your breasts a few minutes after your baby nurses. You’ll usually be able to get an extra ounce or two every time. That’ll be more than enough to stockpile 30 ounces in a month.
- Talk to your boss to determine what room you’ll be pumping in when you return to work and to determine any adjustments you have to make to your schedule.
- Choose a daycare provider so you know who will feed your baby when you’re away. When selecting someone to watch your baby, consider whether they are smokers and whether they’ll follow the precise instructions that you’ll likely have for them.
One Week Before Returning to Work:
- Make sure you have all the equipment you’ll need and go over your plans for the week you go back to work.
- Give your plan a trial run. You can even invite your caregiver over to do a test while you’re out of the house. That will help you identify any possible flaws in the plan.
First Week Back at Work:
- Be prepared for an emotional week. Leaving your baby isn’t easy, even if you look forward to returning to work. You may struggle with guilt, or you might miss your baby — just know that’s normal.
- Ensure you’re still pumping regularly to produce enough milk and prevent any milk supply issues like clogged milk ducts (2).
- There will probably be some last-minute curve balls you’ll have to deal with. Keep your chin up and realize this first week will probably be your hardest.
Setting Up a Workable Schedule
Finding a schedule that works for you at home and work can be challenging. But remember that you’ll learn as you go. And with practice, you’ll get better at juggling everything.
Here’s a checklist of things you’ll want to remember to do at various points of the day.
Before Bed:
- Clean your breast pump and bottles.
- Sanitize them if you choose to do so.
- Make your lunch and pack any snacks that you’ll need at work the next day. Lay out clothes for you and for baby, and make sure the diaper bag and pump bag are ready to go.
Before Going to Work in the Morning:
- Breastfeed your baby before you leave.
- If you have time, pump any remaining milk if he doesn’t fully drain your breasts.
- Put your pump, storage containers and ice packs in your breast milk cooler.
- Double-check that there’s enough breast milk in the refrigerator for your baby while you’re at work and that you don’t need to get any extra from your freezer stash.
When You’re at Work:
- Try to pump on time, according to the schedule you’ve set up. Ideally, you pump as often as your baby is eating or every three hours.You should never let it extend past four hours. Otherwise, you risk embarrassing engorgement and leaking at work.
- Keep things as sterile as possible, including washing your hands.
- Try to relax when you’re pumping, which can be hard work. Keep a set of your baby’s clothing in your purse so you can smell it, or look at a picture of your baby to trigger a letdown. Or consider recording your baby crying or cooing and listening to it as you pump.
- Make sure to run hot, soapy water through your pump parts every time after you pump so it won’t need a thorough cleaning for your next session.
When You First See Your Child Again, At Home or Daycare:
- Breastfeed your baby as soon as you can. If there isn’t a quiet place to do it at the daycare, you might want to do it in the car before you head home. That’s especially important to do if you have a long commute.
At Home:
- Label and refrigerate the breast milk you pumped at work as soon as possible after you walk through the door.
- If your baby will need that breast milk the next day (or within the next 3 days), put it in the refrigerator. Otherwise, it should go in the freezer.
- Continue breastfeeding your baby throughout the evening whenever she’s hungry.
- Make sure you carve out a lot of one-on-one time for you and your baby. That time should include plenty of skin-to-skin contact. Remember, your new working schedule is a huge adjustment for your baby—not just for you. She might need some extra attention.
What's A Good Schedule For Pumping At Work?
Any sample schedule will have to be tweaked to fit your specific needs. But this is a good general schedule that you can revise to fit your life:
- 6:30 a.m. — breastfeed your baby at home before you leave for work in the morning.
- 8:30 a.m. — breastfeed your baby at child care. If you have a babysitter who goes to your house, give your baby one final breastfeed before you leave for your work day.
- 11:30 a.m. — pump during your lunch hour at work in a private room.
- 2:30 p.m. — pump during a break at work.
- 5:30 p.m. — pump one final time at work, or hold off on the pumping if you’ve already left for your work day. Instead, breastfeed your baby when you pick him up at childcare.
- 8:00 p.m. — breastfeed your baby right before you put him down for bed.
- 1:00 a.m. — when baby continues to nurse at least once at night, mom’s supply tends to be better.
When pumping, moms should consider themselves on a 12-hour shift. They need to pump four times to pump every three hours. Nurses, for instance, have the hardest time keeping up their supply because of their twelve hour schedule. So moms need to pump 1-4 times while at work depending on the length of their shift.
Teachers tend to have a hard time, too, since it’s not always easy to get away from the classroom to find time to pump. You may find your profession has unique challenges, as well. Talking to other moms at your workplace can help you find workable solutions to any problems you encounter that are particular to your job or employer.
Editor's Note:
Michelle Roth, BA, IBCLCTips to Help You Make the Transition
Even for the most prepared women, going back to work while still breastfeeding is a huge challenge.
You have to think ahead and troubleshoot problems as they crop up.
It took me weeks before I felt like I wasn’t on the verge of a nervous breakdown at all times. I would go to bed at night, unable to sleep because I was running through my plan for the next day and getting up because I was sure I forgot to do something before I crawled in bed.
The schedule does get easier with time. You’ll get there. Just remember the first few weeks will be the most difficult ones for you and for your baby.
You may want to consider these tips to make it an easier transition.
1. Make Sure You Pick Your Breast Pump Carefully
Your breast pump can either be your greatest ally or your biggest foe. It depends on how wisely you choose when you’re buying one.
If you’re pumping at work, you should go with a double electric breast pump because you’ll be pumping so frequently.
When choosing the best breast pump for work, there are several things you need to consider.
- How loud it is: It can be embarrassing when you’re pumping in the workplace, and your co-workers hear a loud, suction noise from the other room. Some machines are quieter than others.
- Does it operate at more than one speed: Having adjustable speeds can be a huge benefit to you. Some women have problems pumping at a lower speed, but can whiz through pumping when there’s a higher speed involved.
- Is it portable: You can have the greatest breast pump in the world, but if it isn’t easy to take from place to place it won’t be a good choice for the workplace.
- How does it get its power: Does the breast pump operate on a battery or does it come with a power cord? If you have a designated breastfeeding room, but no power outlet, you’ll be in trouble when you go back to work.
Ask friends and family who have pumped in the past what they liked and didn’t like about their pump.
2. Stick To Your Game Plan
Ensure you’re keeping up your milk supply because if you’re starting to dry up, pumping at work can be way more difficult and stressful than it must be.
The best thing you can do to help yourself while pumping at work is to relax. It’s hard to do, but it will make your milk flow faster and easier. Make sure you’re warm enough and seated comfortably.
You can distract yourself by the fact you’re at work and from the dozens of tasks you still need to complete as soon as you walk out of the door. Try looking at some magazines while you’re pumping or play some games on your phone or computer.
3. Find Unique Ways You Can Multitask
If you find it’s too hard at the office to multitask, you can try taking some shortcuts to help you stay on track.
You can use a hands-free pump or a hands-free pumping bra, allowing you to eat lunch or snacks while breastfeeding. Nutrition is an important factor in breastfeeding and breastfeeding women need more calories than other moms, so finding time to eat is important.
While your hands are free, you can also create a to-do list to help you stay on track.
4. Invest In a Portable Cooler
You can buy a portable breast milk cooler to transport your breast milk so you don’t risk it going bad before you can get it home.
Since you aren’t planning on using that breast milk until the next day, you’ll want to start chilling it immediately (3). Just put it in your portable cooler and use ice packs to keep it cool until you can pop it in the refrigerator. If your office has a refrigerator, you can use that to keep it cool, too.
5. Store Your Pump In the Refrigerator
Life Saver
You can save the step of sterilizing the breast pump when you’re at home at night.
6. Find a Comfortable Spot to Pump
If you aren’t happy with the room your workplace has picked out for you to use for your pumping needs, try talking to the human resources department or your boss to see if another room is available.
You shouldn’t expect four-star accommodations, but if your breast pump has a power cord and there’s no outlet in sight, they may be able to figure out something that will work for you. The law is specific about accommodations having a source of electricity for you.
Be polite but firm about your needs. Since my first baby, I’ve learned the importance of speaking up for myself. That’s hard sometimes for a lot of women, but we need to keep working to get better at it.
7. Keep Everything Organized
It helps tremendously if you have one designated breast pump bag to take to work. It’ll be just like a diaper bag, but this bag is for all the tools you’ll need to stay on top of things during the day.
You’ll want your pump, accessories, and cooler to fit inside it. You might also want to go old school and throw a notebook in there so you can quickly jot down what time you pumped throughout the day (though there are some great smartphone apps for this purpose, too).
8. Maintain Your Milk Supply
You’ll want to ensure that you’re not skipping any pumping sessions and that you’re fully draining each breast during your pumping sessions. Use breast massage before turning the pump on, then stop and massage them occasionally during the pumping session.
Make sure you’re eating enough and taking in enough liquids, too.
Letdown Hack
When I was pumping at work, I liked to bring my phone with me so I had short videos of my baby I could watch. Letdown was a breeze after watching a few seconds of my adorable daughter.
9. Manage the Stress
Going back to work when you have a baby can be enough to put you over the edge. Everything seems so hard at first.
There are a few things you can do to manage your stress and continue making healthy choices that will benefit you in the long run.
- Ask your partner for help, whether getting your lunch ready for the next day or washing the breast pump at night.
- Try to get some regular exercise. That’s a great stress buster.
- Make sure you plan ahead. We sometimes can create avoidable stress by putting things off until the last minute. As a mom now, you need to plan for two, not just one.
- Get to work a few minutes early to set up your pumping area. You won’t have to lose precious lunch minutes during the day to do it.
- Ensure you’re eating plenty of healthy snacks with a lot of protein.
10. Manage Your Travel Schedule
If you travel for work, you can always ask your boss if someone else in the office can take the occasional trip for you. If you’re a valuable employee, many employers will want to work with you to find a schedule that works for you.
You’ll want to ensure that you continue to pump while you travel, even if you’ll be gone so long that the milk won’t be good by the time you return. It’s better to pump some bottles of milk that you’ll end up dumping than risk your milk supply drying up.
11. Use Your Downtime to Stay Healthy
Downtime? What’s that? As a new mother, downtime is a rare commodity. There never seem to be enough hours in the day to find time to relax.
But finding time for relaxation and adequate rest is still a priority. While staying up later than you should at night may be tempting to fit some extra hours in the day, that’s a bad idea. You’d be better off getting a good night’s sleep.
Make sure you cut down on caffeine after 5 p.m., or better yet, don’t have any after that hour. That’ll help you go to sleep quickly.
You can also use the weekends to catch up on sleep. My husband would get up with the baby on Saturday mornings so I could sleep in late after a long week of pulling double duty.
12. Keep Your Baby Close During Your Home Time
To help you both feel as connected as you did before you went to work, you should stay near your baby as much as possible in your off-hours. This will allow you to get plenty of skin-to-skin time.
Try to limit electronics as much as possible during that time as well. That can be a huge time sucker and that’s something that you don’t have much of at this point in your life.
How to Handle Awkward Situations
Except for one trailblazing coworker, my workplace wasn’t kid-friendly. Perhaps they didn’t understand why breastfeeding is so important or that they shouldn’t mess with a stressed-out mom.
Here are some of the uncomfortable situations you might encounter at work.
1. When You Spring a Leak
Your breasts can have a mind of their own when you start to push back your pumping session. You can become engorged and before you know it, milk will leak out, making your shirt wet. Sometimes, even just thinking about your baby can lead to leaking milk!
This is one of the most embarrassing parts of being a mom. Your best bet is to stay on time with your pumping sessions and hope this doesn’t happen.
But you should be prepared just in case. You can wear breast pads in your bra to absorb any leaks. You may also want to toss an extra work shirt into your breastfeeding bag for any emergencies.
2. Rude or Insensitive Coworkers
Some people just don’t get it. Whether they’re socially awkward or have no sense of proper boundaries, you might have a coworker or two who makes you uncomfortable with their comments.
Some of their comments may be lame attempts at jokes, but other times, they make inappropriate, creepy comments.
If it becomes a problem, talk to your human resources department or your boss. You shouldn’t have to face that kind of harassment in the workplace.
3. A Squeaking Pump
Breast pumps don’t fade into the background — they let people know they’re there. Whenever I would pump at work, I would do everything I could to muffle the sound, but I still felt like it was so loud that everyone was annoyed with me.
To avoid so much noise, search for a quieter breast pump and keep the door closed in your private pumping room. If your pump is still too loud, try lightly draping a baby blanket around the pump to somewhat muffle the sound.
4. Privacy Concerns
If you want your pumping session to be successful, you must relax as much as possible. Often, that means being the only one in the room.
So, if there are other breastfeeding moms in your workplace, you may want to consider a sign-up sheet for the private room so it won’t be double-booked. That would defeat the purpose of a private room.
You might also want to consider letting people know ahead of time what you’re going to be doing in that room or putting a “Do Not Disturb” sign on the door so that you don’t end up with the awkward situation of one of your coworkers seeing your boobs.
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FAQs
Before I went back to work, I spent a lot of time and energy trying to figure out the answers to my big questions.
Here are the ones I was most concerned with.
You’ve Got This Momma
Welcome to the weird world of pumping breast milk at work. While it may feel strange at first, you’ll eventually think it isn’t a big deal at all.
By the second or third month, I no longer felt strange about it, and I don’t think anyone else did either.
My milk supply never suffered, and my baby was successfully breastfed through the first year of her life. I can’t stress enough how important organization was during this time in my life. Staying on top of things will make your life much easier.
When you feel stressed or overwhelmed, remember why you’re doing this. It’s for that sweet little baby counting on you to be strong and fearless.