Is your baby old enough to make the leap to a sippy cup, but still seems determined to breastfeed forever? Are you wondering if you’ll ever have your breasts back to yourself?
It may seem like an insurmountable obstacle when your baby is so stuck on breastfeeding. But that also means congratulations are in order — you did a great job at breastfeeding. So great, in fact, that now the weaning may be more difficult than you anticipated.
Before you give up all hope of a peaceful transition though, let’s look at some tricks you can use to make this a bit easier for everyone involved. Many of us moms have been in your shoes and our experience can get you through this.
- Here’s What You Should Know Before Beginning
- Introducing the Sippy Cup to Your Breastfed Baby — Step by Step
- Stick With It
Here’s What You Should Know Before Beginning
Every child is ready for sippy cups at different stages. Some are early learners and are ready as soon as when they are 6 months old. Others don’t show any signs of interest until they are 1 year old.
But if they aren’t attempting to use a sippy cup and their first birthday is approaching, you need to move things along. The American Dental Association says children should be using sippy cups by age 1 to prevent tooth decay (source).
Before you start the weaning process, there are a few things you should keep in mind:
- Buy a breast-like sippy cup: Your baby is used to your soft breast as his primary feeding device so going to a hard-feeling sippy cup isn’t going to work too well. It’ll be a big adjustment. Look for one that is more breastlike, like the Philips Avent My Easy Sippy Cup.
- Try not to lose your patience: Your baby is winging it as it goes, just like you are with a bunch of this mothering stuff. You’ll both learn together, and you’ll get there eventually. So try not to sweat the small setbacks or the occasional temper tantrum.
- Get several kinds of sippy cups: Before committing to any particular kind of sippy cup, buy a small pack of several kinds. That can help you find one that works for your baby. The worst thing you can do is invest a small fortune in 10 identical sippy cups and later find out your child hates them. You’ll be out a bunch of money for something that won’t work for your child.
- Watch out for mold: As you move along with this process, make sure you’re cleaning those sippy cups well. Depending upon the design you buy, milk can get stuck in the valves and hiding spaces of the cup. That can lead to the formation of mold. Some sippy cups can be difficult to clean so you really have to pay attention to giving them a thorough bath.
When you try to wean your baby off the breast in favor of a sippy cup, you have two main options:
- Go cold turkey: With this method, you cut your baby off the breast 100 percent, only giving them sippy cups. They’ll adjust in three or four days, but the downside to this method is that you may get a lot of crying during that time. Unless you’re still pumping to put the breast milk in a sippy cup, it could lead to clogged ducts for you (source).
- The weaning method: If you don’t want every night to turn into a waking nightmare for you, you can gradually cut back on the breastfeeding sessions or offer them at bedtime only. That will help you both get some sleep and it will give your baby a chance to adjust to the new method of feeding at a slower and perhaps more comfortable pace.
More in Sippy Cups: How to Clean & Keep Sippy Cups Mold Free
Introducing the Sippy Cup to Your Breastfed Baby — Step by Step
Unless your baby has older brothers or sisters it watches very carefully or it has been eyeing your cup for some time, it may not have any interest in drinking from a cup. Here are some steps you can take to get your child through this milestone.
1. Decide Which Method You’ll Use
Before you begin your battle, you have to pick your strategy. Your baby is a lot smarter than you give them credit for. If you don’t have a clear-cut strategy in mind, you’ll be struggling before you’ve even begun.
If you’re going cold turkey, you need to be firm and not give in. It can be difficult when they’re crying. And if you’re up for a big promotion at work or you have a huge project you have to complete, going cold turkey might not be the best method for you.
Even if you decide to make the move gradually and still give your baby the breast at bedtime, you still need resolve. If you give in to your child’s demands for a noontime breastfeeding session when you’re only trying to give the breast to them at night, you’ll just confuse your child.
2. Teach Your Child How to Use a Cup
Show your child how sippy cups work. Make sure they watch you get out the breast milk from the refrigerator and pour it in.
The first time you hand them the sippy cup, you may have to show them what to do with it. If it has handles, show your child how to correctly hold them. If it doesn’t have handles, just put their hands around the round cup base. Try to show them they need to use two hands to hold it.
Then aim the spout of the cup toward their mouth if they don’t seem to know what to do with it. Once they taste the breast milk coming out of the spout, they should become more interested in the cup.
If it becomes a struggle to even make it to this point or if you’re using a cup that requires active sucking before any liquid is released, you might have to dip the tip of the spout in breast milk and rub it on your baby’s lips (source). That might be enough to spur them on to investigate further.
3. If the First Cup Fails, Try Another
If you can’t get your baby to take the first sippy cup you try, despite repeated attempts, try another one. Remember when I told you to buy a few different kinds of sippy cups before you started trying to wean your baby from the breast? This situation is exactly why you need more than one cup type.
Some babies absolutely hate the feel of certain cups. The flow might be too fast or too slow, or sometimes there seems to be no rhyme or reason why one cup passes your baby’s approval test and another doesn’t. It may remain a mystery why they hate one type of cup. Just let it go and try another.
4. Let Them Play Around with the Cup
Although it’s fine to help them get used to their new cup, when they show any signs of wanting to try it independently, get out of the picture instantly. You don’t want to mess up their interest by hovering around them too much or trying to micromanage how they use their new cup.
It might go against your inner instincts, especially if you’re worried about a mess, but let them hold the cup, shake it up and bang it against the floor. By doing all those things, they can learn about how to best use their cup and they’ll be comfortable with it. Once they start liking the way it feels, they’ll forget all about your breast.
5. Don’t Let Them Walk Around And Drink
Letting your child roam around while drinking from their sippy cup is a bad idea. If they fall while walking, that sippy cup can jab their teeth or the roof of the mouth. Even if they’re using a soft spout, it will still hurt and it might dull their enthusiasm for using their cup.
Plus, you should never let your baby fall asleep while drinking from their sippy cup because it can cause cavities.
Stick With It
Although it won’t be the easiest transition of your life, the key to success with introducing a sippy cup is to never give up.
- Choose your method.
- Make sure your child understands how the cup works.
- Use a different cup if your child rejects the first one.
- Let your child experiment with the cup.
- Never put them to bed with a cup or allow them to walk while drinking.
You’re bound to have some mishaps and stumbles in the beginning, but before long, your baby will master this new skill.
Please let us know about any comments or questions you have, and we’d appreciate if you would share this article if you found it helpful.